Friday, August 15, 2008

Why Do Men Cheat?

Why do men cheat? It is the question that heartbroken women have been asking of unfaithful men since the beginning of time. Well, I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. It's because we are MEN. As men, we have this portion of ourselves that require a continuous feeding of self-worth and self-ego. We NEED to feel good about ourselves, and we tend to find this through sex. Although the physical act of sex is great, it is the mental side that drives us. The moment something disrupts our ability to feed these desires, we begin to look elsewhere.

If found an article stating the 6 Reasons Why Men Cheat, further supporting my point.
http://www.lifescript.com/channels/well_being/Meditations_Motivations/6_reasons_why_men_cheat.asp?page=1

1. She ain't what she used to be. Simply put, when you physically change and we lose our sexual desire with you, we tend to feel good about ourselves with someone else.

2. No one loves a ball buster. Knock us down, we'll find someone else to pick us up.

3. The thrill of it all. The monotony of the bing-bang-boom dulls us mentally. We need to find someone to help pick it up.

4. Blame it on Wanderlust. This really doesn't relate all too much on men in general, but instead a certain group of men. So, moving on...

5. It's biology baby. Mongomy was never an intention, but thrill us as a friend and as a lover, we tend to make it a point rather than an option.

6. It's just sex. Exactly. Sex is just sex. You give us the sex, we don't need to go anywhere else for the sex.

My point? You want to keep us from straying, you have to understand it is much more than a physical thing. Begging, pleading and the feeling that sex is a chore diminishes our ego and our worth. Once that becomes a habit, we'll find a place where it isn't.

No comments: